addictedtoyou Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 What does it mean when a girl says that I'm cheesy? Is it something good or? Do I need to see it as a compliment and that she likes me? Thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mustlovedogs Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 Context? what did you do before she said it? Did she say it with a laugh or did she just say it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 Cheesy isn't a good thing. Its an indication that you're not being sincere or are being rather unauthentic. Why did she call you "cheesy?" What did you say/do that made her make that comment. Knowing the context she used it in would be helpful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nikego Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 Cheesy can be a good thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addictedtoyou Posted June 18, 2017 Author Share Posted June 18, 2017 Cheesy isn't a good thing. Its an indication that you're not being sincere or are being rather unauthentic. Why did she call you "cheesy?" What did you say/do that made her make that comment. Knowing the context she used it in would be helpful. She said it after I said something romantic about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addictedtoyou Posted June 18, 2017 Author Share Posted June 18, 2017 Context? what did you do before she said it? Did she say it with a laugh or did she just say it? She said it with a blush emoji after I said something romantic about her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SherrySher Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 Hmmm, now that you gave more information it is possible that she is being flirty back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mustlovedogs Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 Well it was over text so it could go either way. She may be embarrassed or flattered. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annia Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 English is not my first language, but that's something I would say joking to someone who was very romantic to me in one of the typical ways like "flowers", a "you complete me" kind of love declaration or other typically romantic things. But I know that cheesy if not said in a playful or jokingly way, it can be something bad. By your context I think it was just a joke. Just her being playful and teasing you a bit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chevroledy Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 What is your relationship like? Are you a romantic person by nature? Does she know how you feel about her? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addictedtoyou Posted June 19, 2017 Author Share Posted June 19, 2017 What is your relationship like? Are you a romantic person by nature? Does she know how you feel about her? She defo knows how I feel about her. We have been talking for more than a month straight with both sides initiating contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
charity Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 I have said that to men when I felt they were just using rehearsed overused lines in a way I felt was false. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doc Blaze Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 It all depends on her...these situations are very hard to tell unless you see the history of the convos.. for example I would say to my ex when I went away... you so much beautiful and she would be like you are so cornyyyyy lol ..then would put a heart and kiss emoji she was joking around with me... I think she was just joking with you in a good way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j.man Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 If this is a girlfriend, I'd take it as a playful jab. If this a woman you're trying to date, I'd assume she's brushing off your compliment / telling you she's not interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezie Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 It's not a positive or negative. It's observation. I usually say it as a playful thing. It can be that I'm not taking him seriously or could be that I'm taking it as a sweet statement. Wouldn't read too much into it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stuka80 Posted June 19, 2017 Share Posted June 19, 2017 its a negative response. when u complimented her you said it in a really corny, cringy way as if youre in some romantic movie. basically op, tone it down, youre gushing over her too much and shes not the type that likes men who do that. i would guess she likes the more aloof type. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Starstruck8800 Posted June 20, 2017 Share Posted June 20, 2017 It means you're generic; a cliché. If she said it with a smile, she likes that about you. But if she said it with a little sarcasm, you might be in the friendzone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted June 20, 2017 Share Posted June 20, 2017 She defo knows how I feel about her. We have been talking for more than a month straight with both sides initiating contact. Only talking? After a month, why haven't you asked her out on an actual date? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addictedtoyou Posted June 22, 2017 Author Share Posted June 22, 2017 Only talking? After a month, why haven't you asked her out on an actual date? Cuz, it’s a Long distance relationship. It ain’t that easy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted June 22, 2017 Share Posted June 22, 2017 Cuz, it’s a Long distance relationship. It ain’t that easy. Then why bother? Why not let her drift and find someone who is close enough that it will be easy? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
addictedtoyou Posted June 22, 2017 Author Share Posted June 22, 2017 Then why bother? Why not let her drift and find someone who is close enough that it will be easy? If she prefers that she is free to do that, but till now she never mention about that and she still likes to have contact with me. She still initiate the conversation and keeps showing interest. Is it just me or if she wasn’t interested she would have stopped contacting me a lot sooner than almost 35+ days? I would do that though, it’s better than keeping someone dangling... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatwasThen Posted June 24, 2017 Share Posted June 24, 2017 You are both "keeping someone dangling" because you haven't the means to meet and you'll not be able to meet often which you need to be able to do to nurture a relationship. What are the chances of you moving to her or her moving to you? What are you afraid of that you pursue someone that you're incapable of actually being with? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nsolo Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 It means that if she brings it up again you need to say something like, "Now what exactly do you mean by that? Do tell." with a smirk on your face as if you don't really care but you're confronting her about it at the same time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anne048 Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 It could mean so many things: 1. If you guys are dating then she could have said it jokingly. 2. If you guys are just friends and you were just flirting then she might have found it funny and who knows, she might have been impressed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CrystalBNY Posted June 25, 2017 Share Posted June 25, 2017 It means she thinks you're kind of corny but cute at the same time lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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