karla0522 Posted June 18, 2017 Share Posted June 18, 2017 Okay so this is my story in a nutshell. My boyfriend (Allen) and I have been dating for almost 2 years. In these two years, we haven't had sex or done most of anything else. Right now it is June and I found out in April (about 2 months ago) that he cheated on me. He was texting another girl about having sex with her and doing a bunch of things. I confronted him about it once I had all the details and he told me that he didn't know what he was thinking and and he was horny and (he recently had surgery and had been taking Percocet) he blamed the Percocet for not being in his right mind. However, Percocet only makes someone tired, it doesn't cause someone to not be in their right mind. So it was obvious he was making excuses. After I confronted him I took 2 days to think about everything and I ended up telling him that even though I haven't forgiven him yet I'll give him a second chance because I love him. Now, almost two months later, I still haven't forgiven him and I don't know what to do. I told him that we need a break so as of right now we're taking a break for a week. Now to get into a backstory, Allen has been with many girls and basically everyone who knows him considers him a player. However, as long as we've been dating he hasn't done anything besides what happened in April. He keeps telling me that he loves me so much and he will never cheat on me ever again and I feel like this has been a wake up call for him, but at the same I don't want to risk getting hurt again because I won't have sex with him or give him what he wants anytime soon. Please help me out here Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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