Not sure if i feel better or worse meeting ex

[Brokenheartedm]

Im kinda hurt, while being at a party yesterday i heard some loud mouth bad mouthing my ex and how i was stupid for meeting with her, (these are people i call my friends) honestly me and my ex had a bumpy realtionship we werent always the best to eachother but i know i loved the girl more than anyone ever before. Today i am pretty miserable like really? You have to say all that crap when i am 5 ft from you why are you in our business anyway????? My ex is on vacation woth coworkers and although she is not mine its killing me that a majority are males, but i guess if she liked any shed be dating one by now Our talk was great and it was like we had never stopped talking for 6 months right from the geco we had eachother laughing talking about the past she contacted me after that it was nice seeing me etc etc, the next day she sent me an embarassing pic she had of me right before sex kinda odd she kept but whatever. I love this girl still and it hurts i want nothing more than to be with her again even if that involves losing my "friends" i " " friends because they never wanted us to date from the start, they put crap in my head saying all this nasty stuff about her it made me not be able to trust her although she never gave me a reason not to i have so much i want to say but noone i can talk to about it i honestly think i felt somewhat better during no contact period

[ThatwasThen]

Your TRUE friends will tell you the truth. Since your relationship with this chick was rocky/bumpy and likely toxic to YOU... they are trying to tell you the truth.

 

Don't lose your friends over a girl that you are no longer with and with whom you had an unhealthy/bumpy relationship with. Go back to no contact so that you can flush her from your system and rely on your friends to keep you busy which will help you get past her.

[shessofly]

Contact with an ex can be very painful after a breakup. Many of us (myself included at one point in time) have to learn that the hard way. I suppose your friends mean well, although it sounds like they lack tact. Try not to dwell on it.