hooblemm Posted June 8, 2017 Share Posted June 8, 2017 Hello everyone, it has been quite a while since I last posted here and I am happy to say that my relationship of almost 5 years is as amazing as it's ever been...and it has been this way for quite a while and we both have not been happier. BTW, I am 19 and she is 20. Anyways, I recently went on a small trip with her and her family for a few days and it made me start to think - for some reason I just cannot enjoy myself fully while around her family...I start to feel bored, like I am expecting "more" out of everyday interaction. For example, while on this trip we went to a "famous" bakery with really good food that my GF has been wanting to take me to for years - something I would usually be excited for - however, with them I just felt bored and felt like I wanted to be somewhere else. They are nice, laid-back people, similar to my own family, however they live a bit differently and have different lifestyle. I'm not sure if it is even something for me to be worried about, I just have a strange feeling that I cannot put my finger on for some reason. I have spoken about this with my GF and we think maybe it is that we just want some privacy, as we only get to see each other about 3 times a week due to work/distance, and we are typically not afforded much privacy during those 3 times and are often surrounded by her family (we both still live at home). I am thinking that maybe instead of "feeling like I want to be somewhere else" it is "feeling like I just want some privacy without her family"....Just curious about everyone's thoughts about this. Thank you! Link to comment
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