David92506 Posted June 7, 2017 Share Posted June 7, 2017 I date women from several social clubs, work and online dating. After several dates it always is the same thing. I feel like she is taking advantage of me. By this I mean she is always 40 minutes late for each date, she always orders the most expensive meal (I pay for everything), she orders hors d’oeuvres and appetizers with her meal, she insists that we go to her favorite restaurant (I pay) or her favorite movie, loaning her money, etc. I have the impression that EVERYONE will take advantage of you if you let them. I went to a therapist and she said IT'S MY FAULT. I need to speak up. Let them know that this isn't all right. Put my foot down, etc. I was talking with a female co-worker and she said her boyfriend is always trying to take advantage if her. She constantly has to assert her boundaries. My question is, Do you believe most people will take advantage of you (in a relationship) if you let them? When people do take advantage of you, don't they feel bad or guilty? Link to comment
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