Devastated

[alejandro79]

Yesterday after 6 month , my separated told she was talking to someone. I'm devastated that another man is holding my wife and I also said that it I wouldn't like for another man to take care of my 3 children,...she said I thought of that too.

This morning, I go pickup my youngest from her place and she didn't wanted me to come in because the guy was laying down on her coah with her sister. He's fighting for custody of his child. ..don't know the reasons. ...I'm so devastated. She makes like the most wonderful man walking on earth.

[ImYoPusher]

My ex would let himself in my house when he came to pick up our kids for school, knowing I was seeing someone else. He'd do it when he dropped them off. It's like he musta felt like it was still his house; it was not. You don't need to go inside her house. Just wait outside or on the doorstep. There's no real reason that makes it necessary for you to go in. Outta sight outta mind. If you don't see it don't let it bother you.

[Dominique]

I know the pain is excruciating. I'm so sorry.

[alejandro79]

My ex would let himself in my house when he came to pick up our kids for school, knowing I was seeing someone else. He'd do it when he dropped them off. It's like he musta felt like it was still his house; it was not. You don't need to go inside her house. Just wait outside or on the doorstep. There's no real reason that makes it necessary for you to go in. Outta sight outta mind. If you don't see it don't let it bother you.

I normally come in, all the time but since he was there, I guess it was his 1st time...she didn't wanted me to come in.

[alejandro79]

I know the pain is excruciating. I'm so sorry.

Thank you, I keep praying and praying for god to soften her heart towards me so we can be a family again.