pienene07 Posted June 5, 2017 Share Posted June 5, 2017 Hello It's a quiet long story, my dad died when I was in belly 24 years ago, my sister have different dad and I have a twin brother. It was really hard childhood as my mum was single mom. When I was young my sisters dad was approaching us saying that we are his kids, but my mom told me to ignore him because they were not together then anymore, ( he was very popular with woman's and with kids before and after, he cheated on my mum so she left after my sister was born)and my mum was telling me about our real dad, his name, what happened and so on. Telling me story's about him when I was younger. So moust of my life I have been angry to god for taking him away from me ( as my mum said it was car accident), I was always eager to see his grave but my mum always had excuses and no pictures of him and time went on and I grow older moved away and loved him in my heart. Just recently went back home for holiday, and talked about it with my grandad and my sister and couldn't ignore the things they said. So I went back to my mum and asked her to tell the truth ( the one I hoped to hear) but she breaked out and said the truth after 24 years that my dad is my sisters dad, the one I have met and talked. I was socked as I wanted to cry but I couldn't because my 9 year old brother was watching me and didn't understand what was going on. My mother asked me what the big deal? Why are u so concearnd ? It's not important When I was dying inside ,loving person that does not exist , hoping every day that I could see his picture and find some relatives from his side , and just being very hurt- all she could say I didn't want you to know that he is your father ( was it anger for him cheating or whatever) When she told me is him I didn't say anything but I did not believe her, she laid to me for 24 years and gutted me deeply, now I want to do DNA test to find out if it true, and if she is lying again I would not really care who is the one then. I just need to find some closure , I been so sensitive about it all my life . I never told her how I felt and what I really thought about it because I didn't have a courage. My mother asked if I could forgive her, I don't hate her but I don't know what to say maybe one day . She don't see any reason why would I care about it as she knows who her father is and always been there for her. Just wanted to share and take it off my heart and maybe somebody have same stories to share. Link to comment
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