Falling out of love: Getting back together??

[missing003]

I have already given up all hope that my ex will come back to me and have entered no contact for the past three weeks.

I was just wondering if anyone had any success stories of their partner coming back after falling out of love with them?

Even if you didn't take them back, if they came back at all.

Thank you!

[MissCanuck]

Personally, I have never gone back to a partner I fell out of love with.

 

However, there are a lot of variables that would influence a situation like that.

 

How old are you both? How long were you together and how was your relationship? What were your future goals, individually and as a couple?

[missing003]

Personally, I have never gone back to a partner I fell out of love with.

 

However, there are a lot of variables that would influence a situation like that.

 

How old are you both? How long were you together and how was your relationship? What were your future goals, individually and as a couple?

 

- I am 26 and she is 23

I remember being a little afraid to date her in the beginning because I know in your early 20's you change so much. Like I said she left and said she had fallen out of love with me. She felt like our relationship had run its course.

 

- Together for 3.5 years

Never fought, had an amazing connection. I never saw this break up coming and was completely blindsided.

 

- We planned on moving in together

Looking at apartments and everything literally a week before she broke up with me.

 

- She had just left a job she hated, that stressed her out more than anything and is currently taking some time to herself to travel a bit and figure out what she really wants in life.

 

- No contact

We have been broken up for 3 months but I didn't fully accept it until about 3 weeks ago when she told me she only missed our strong friendship connection but didn't see us getting back together. Thats when I decided to go full no contact for my own healing and have given up all hope on getting back together.

[kbbcoop77]

Stay no contact she's finished. You're young, just heal from this and get yourself ready to date again..I had a blast in my 20's after my serious gf dumped me. Hurt like hell for awhile but then I went on a dating spree for several years before meeting my future wife. You only live once!

[MissCanuck]

She's dated you since she was very young.

 

This usually means that she will still want to have more experiences and meet other people before really settling down. Even if you were a great boyfriend to her, she wants to spread her wings and move on - it's cliche, but very true in my experience.