Brokenheartedm Posted June 2, 2017 Share Posted June 2, 2017 So i made a thread about how my ex asked to meet up, after i confronted her about the snap chat video. I told her i agree about meeting but the more i think of it im not really sure i want to anymore. She wants to clear the air, i am not looking to be friends but im willing to be friends with her and only keep that friendship inside the firehouse and nothing more than that, this girl screwed me over big time not cheating or anything. I am over all the crap she said and all that so i feel like i am wasting my time and just going to be opening a can of worms i dont want to reopen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glitterfingers Posted June 2, 2017 Share Posted June 2, 2017 Agreed. So don't? Better to drop this and move on... doing both of you a favour. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annia Posted June 2, 2017 Share Posted June 2, 2017 Is this the one whose cousin supposedly made a video about you and is giving you bread crumbs now? I wouldn't meet her if you're still so hurt about the break up. What good would it do? Just block her snapchat and whatever social media she uses so that you don't see and tell her that you need NC and start doing it. It might be hard in the beginning but it's the best way to heal faster. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostandhurt Posted June 2, 2017 Share Posted June 2, 2017 What are your expectations for this meet? Do you want her to leave you alone? Do you think meeting her will accomplish that? Do you want to get back together? Do you want to be friends? Do you want to apologize and move on? This meeting will either help you heal and move on or set you back depending on your expectations and goals. Be brutally honest with yourself and write down what you hope to accomplish by meeting her. Tell us what you want to happen so it becomes real and out in the open. What do you want? Lost Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brokenheartedm Posted June 3, 2017 Author Share Posted June 3, 2017 I still love this girl and obviously whatever she has to say is important enough to not continue the converstaion via email. I would love to be back with her i never wanted to break up with her she told everyone she was my future wife etc. im just super nervous its been 5 months theres so much to talk about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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