alejandro79 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 So my ex and been separated for 6 month and she already talking to another man, sleeping over his house etc. Interesting is that he is also going thru the same thing, he's fighting for custody of his child. I feel this will get messy. It's our of my control but she make him sound like the greatest man walking this earth. I still take care of my 2 steps and my son as if we still were together. She would leave them with me when she wants to sleep over this man place. It's hurts so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tomthumb88 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 I know it's hard.... but why should you continue to care for her children? Is your son with her or another woman? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaggerJim Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 Do you own a home together? If not, what are her plans for moving out if there is no re-conciliation on the cards. It's a tough situation to be in for sure. Is it a mutual break-up? Still not the point tho, she is kinda relying on you to care for the kids while she's over at his place for the night. But it all depends on the arrangement you too had when you separated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SherrySher Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 I know this is hard right now, but concentrate on your children and not her. There is no guarantee that it will work out between them and even so, she could be doing you a favour so the door is now opened for you to have someone even better in your life. This is only temporary and you will move past it. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alejandro79 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Share Posted June 6, 2017 I know it's hard.... but why should you continue to care for her children? Is your son with her or another woman? My son is mine and hers. The 2 oldest are her 1st marriage. I still take care of them like we still in a marriage. I told her with/without her I'll still take care of our children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alejandro79 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Share Posted June 6, 2017 Do you own a home together? If not, what are her plans for moving out if there is no re-conciliation on the cards. It's a tough situation to be in for sure. Is it a mutual break-up? Still not the point tho, she is kinda relying on you to care for the kids while she's over at his place for the night. But it all depends on the arrangement you too had when you separated. She wanted the separation, I didn't. I wanted to make it work inside our house. The house was bought we married and it's only under my name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alejandro79 Posted June 6, 2017 Author Share Posted June 6, 2017 I know this is hard right now, but concentrate on your children and not her. There is no guarantee that it will work out between them and even so, she could be doing you a favour so the door is now opened for you to have someone even better in your life. This is only temporary and you will move past it. Hang in there. Thanks..SherrySher, I believed she's trying to fill a void, I guess both of them are trying to fill a void. I pray to god to soften her heart. I give anything for my family to be together. I feel like, if he is fighting for custody, there's a lot of drama and stress. My wife would tell me, I'm happy, I'm good and I don't have un necessary stress...guess what being with you will have a lot more stress from his life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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