sc1234 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 So me and this guy have been on and off in a long distance relationship for 8 months now. During those 3 months he has asked for space 3 times already. Funny cause he would do something to intentionally make me upset, which would make me go crazy on him, and end up with me apologizing. A week ago, this happened again and he asked for space for a week...I was extremely fustrated so i asked to take the day to think and cool off. I msged him the next day begging , asking him for forgiveness and asked to make it work. he said he hope we can, but that he was in a meeting and that he would msg me later on that day. He went two days without msging me and even blocked me from seeing his instagram stories those days while he was ignoring me even though he wasnt doing anything wrong, just with family and guy friends. (my girlfriends told me since they have him on instagram and we put two and two togethe, it was confusing because he wasnt doing anything bad?) I let him be, never heard from him until the next day he called me but i didnt answer and just ended up being so frustrated from his silent treatment, ignoring me that I txted him telling him i couldnt do this anymore and that its done. I immediately blocked him from and off everything including his number, unblocked it the next day, where he asked for his bracelet back, i responded politely sayin no problem, ill get it back somehow, and he responded with "I never wanted this to happen, i guess things dont work out and maybe its for the best, not trying to start a conversation here but i needed to say that." I never responded and havent heard from him since...He has then followed all these girls on instagram ( i know to get my upset ) and yesterday made his insta account private. Im just left really confused right now... I've been reading up on narcism and he fits all of those traits / what he was doing to me. I just wish I knew if he just wanted control (which he has told me he wasnt used to not having it with me because I was different then all his exes), or if there was another girl this entire time? I just want him to feel the same hurt that I am going through as bad as that sounds. I know he was never expecting me to end it so abruptly and thought I would always be around when he gave me the silent treatment to come back to. I wish i knew if his silent treatment was either to control or to find ways to end it.... Link to comment
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