rb1 Posted June 1, 2017 Share Posted June 1, 2017 Just a little update: I moved out at the start of May due to my wife telling me she didn't want a relationship right now with me and wants a divorce. Long story short, she's become a compeletely different person emotionally that all I recognize is her appearance. Treats me as if I'm that annoying coworker or boy that just never had a chance"friend zone". Eventually after about a year of this and still doing everything I could for her. She tells me she loves me but no longer in love with me, doesn't want a relationship right now, and wants a divorce, the whole nine yards and needs time to work on her. So I moved out to give her space and plus I couldn't stand feeling uncomfortable in a place we had built together! I know Rome wasn't built over night, but even after a month it's a lot of back and forth with her. Tells me she doesn't want me but even after putting a no contact in place(which she wanted) she still needs to talk to me daily. I removed her off of all social media To give her space and she flips out. I try to not really conversate at all but she will find a reason to text, call, etc... Finally put my foot down and told her she's on her own financially but it's like she doesn't hear me or believe me because she invites me over again for dinner which I declined and wants to talk about up coming events and rent, other bills. Even though I clearly stated I would not pay any of her bills! She yet still doesn't even seem bothered I'm gone nor really misses me at all when I see her in person. Already seems to have a daily routine down and all I do is think of her. Yet, she always need to contact, wants me to stay the night on the couch, even wanted me to stay in the bed with her Friday night. Obviously, I declined again and left! So in a nutshell, even after my Counseling session and sticking to my guns. I'm still just as confused as to what is up and what is down with my wife. If she's just as confused or if she's doing the things for me and toawards me to keep me in it to pay for things, or if she's having flashes of guilt, or regret. Hell if I know right now. Link to comment
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