KatzenMoon Posted May 25, 2017 Share Posted May 25, 2017 this is sort of all over the place but basically my ex and I never really broke up. we just sort of ended things and stopped talking to each other last year after FIVE years. neither of us ever blocked each other or unfriended either just stopped talking. i can't fully go NC with him because of the fact that we have a friend in common who we have become godparents to her daughter since she was born and that was when we were dating. recently his behavior has completely changed to where he thinks he can text me whenever he wants but when the shoe is on the other foot he never responds back. i don't constantly text him or bug him about mindless crap. he hasn't had a successful relationship since me and he's been "spiralling" acting like he doesn't respect himself. one minute he's super nice to me and wants to be friends, the next he's blaming me for things I had already apologized for. my problem is he's placing blame on others for things that are also his fault. he won't listen to others when it comes to advice or even his family. i haven't seen him in almost a month and that was him asking me to come over. it's always on HIS terms not mine. everyone always says let the boy chase you but it's been FIVE years we are way past that stage. i feel like nothing i do at this point will change his horrible attitude towards life but I want some sort of friendship with him. Link to comment
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