How do i get him back?

[bayli]

I have been with this guy for 3 years now. Im the first girl thats ever lived with him. We were deadly in love. Someone made up a bunch of stuff saying i cheated on him and i proved myself and i also told him that a guy did kiss me, WHEN WE BROKE UP. So now he dont want to be with me and he has all these people talking in his ear. We broke up exactly 2 weeks ago (he was in ohio working) hes been home for 1 week and hes already having a girl stay over at his house every night. Told her that he has no feelings for me at all and that he dont love me anymore. But i dont believe it. He asked my brother a week before all of this if he could ask me to marry him. I messaged him and blew him up and i started pushing him away. I just want to get him back and show him how much he means to me but he said he wants space. He spends every day with this girl also. He leaves for ohio tomorrow morning though. So i hope he gets ahold of me..

[MissCanuck]

I have been with this guy for 3 years now. Im the first girl thats ever lived with him. We were deadly in love. Someone made up a bunch of stuff saying i cheated on him and i proved myself and i also told him that a guy did kiss me, WHEN WE BROKE UP. So now he dont want to be with me and he has all these people talking in his ear. We broke up exactly 2 weeks ago (he was in ohio working) hes been home for 1 week and hes already having a girl stay over at his house every night. Told her that he has no feelings for me at all and that he dont love me anymore. But i dont believe it. He asked my brother a week before all of this if he could ask me to marry him. I messaged him and blew him up and i started pushing him away. I just want to get him back and show him how much he means to me but he said he wants space. He spends every day with this girl also. He leaves for ohio tomorrow morning though. So i hope he gets ahold of me..

 

This is probably the real reason he chose to believe the rumors. He had her lined up and it was a convenient excuse to end the relationship with you. This is also why he wants space, so he can date and play house with her.

 

And OP, come on, what man of any maturity asks his own's girlfriend's brother to propose for him? Is he 16?

[bayli]

He asked my brother if he could take my hand. & i feel like hes using her for a void because he wont talk to anyone about it.

[Annia]

This is probably the real reason he chose to believe the rumors. He had her lined up and it was a convenient excuse to end the relationship with you. This is also why he wants space, so he can date and play house with her.

 

And OP, come on, what man of any maturity asks his own's girlfriend's brother to propose for him? Is he 16?

 

This. I can't even.

 

It seems to me you dodged a bullet OP. He was probably the cheater unless he moves on in the speed of light, which I don't really believe.

[MissCanuck]

OP, if one week a guy is asking for your hand in your marriage and the next he's got some girl shacked up at his house, then he was not in any position to be tabling a serious marriage proposal.

 

He sounds immature and not very honest.

[bayli]

He treated me great. Hes everything i want and i just cant wrap my head around it. I feel like he was using her as a void. He is back in ohio now. But how does someone just show no emotion for anything. He dont care about how hurt i am. He dont want to talk to me. Ive tried over and over to talk to him and he wont. Im hoping he thinks about things when he is gone. You cant just let something go like this..

[MissCanuck]

You can just let someone go like this, OP. Sadly, it happens all the time.

 

It seems you're in a lot of denial. If he had another girl shacked up with in 2 weeks, he had her lined up before.

 

Stop trying to talk to him. Unfortunately, insisting on it won't help and will push him further away.