mamatobe Posted May 24, 2017 Share Posted May 24, 2017 One of the nastiest break ups I've ever had. I'm an older woman who got knocked up by her younger man. I was bad and lied that I had an abortion but I was still pregnant. I went to the abortion clinic and walked right out. I don't think he believes me but I don't really care, as I am prepared to raise this child alone. Although I'd never keep this child from him, I don't expect anything either. He went no contact for a few weeks then he sent nasty text calling me a liar, which I did admit to lying. He wanted me to take a blood test, which has been completed and verified a progressing pregnancy. I sent him the results and then blocked his immature ass from everything. There is a lot more but giving the short version. I met a wonderful man who is prepared to stand by me through this. My lawyer said I don't have to notify him of the birth or list him as the father. I haven't decided yet. I will never keep him from his child. I am willing to co parent and be civil. He's ignored all my texts leading up to me blocking him so I just feel he's washed his clean of me and the baby so I moved on. I feel so much better when I blocked him. We had an amazing relationship up until I lied about having the abortion. What the hell should I do and what is he thinking? It's been 6 weeks since our breakup. I'm ready for all your comments, criticisms and suggestions. Link to comment
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