Jy1986usa Posted May 23, 2017 Share Posted May 23, 2017 Hey all. Some of you know my story but if not here's a quick refresher. My life fell apart 5 months ago. I lost a good job and the love of my life left me. Had a lot of ups and downs since but mostly downs. Here's the deal. I am super lonely. I'm definitely NOT over my ex yet and am still in a very low place (lots of depression, anxiety, etc). Honestly I don't think I'm in any state to be dating yet. I got a lot of stuff going on. I'm trying to get my life back on track and find some happiness again. I've been told by many including members here I need to get to a place where I'm happy single. Here's the thing though. As I said in the previous paragraph I'm very lonely and desperately missing human contact and having a romantic interest in my life. The only resemblance of happiness I've had in this 5 months of hell was a couple months ago when I dated another girl for a few weeks. I ultimately sabotaged it because of all my issues but while it lasted I felt somewhat normal and thought about my ex way less. I was wondering if maybe dipping my toe back into the dating waters might help. I know this probably sounds pretty codependent but again I'm just so lonely and sad. Thoughts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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