abaco Posted May 23, 2017 Share Posted May 23, 2017 I have been divorced a little over 3 years and my ex-wife who left me for a guy she met online is engaged for a second time. She was dating two other guys in the middle. The guy she is currently engaged to popped the question after dating her a little over 2 months. They have now been together 5 months, during that time I have been around him 4 times but he has made no attempt to introduce himself. The first time I saw him he was out in front of my ex-wife's new house playing hockey with my son. I got out of the car to say hello and he turned and quickly walked into the garage. At that point I decided to let him talk to me when he wanted to. Two weeks ago it was my son's first holy communion. When the priest had him come up to receive communion the priest said for myself and his mother and god parents to come up with him but sure enough he came walking up from the back of the church and not only joined us but stepped in front of me to receive communion. Last night my son had his first little league game and of course he was there. Normally my ex and I sit together for these kind of events but last night they both sat as far away from me as possible. Besides my son's first holy communion last night was the first family event he has been to. Now baseball is my thing to do with my son. I work with him on it, pay for the league, the equipment and his private lessons but last night I felt really uncomfortable. How do I handle this? PS, Last Summer my ex-wife wanted to get back together, "she made an error in judgment" is what she said. After she dropped a bunch of hints and I talked to my priest about it I decided to give it a try. We went out twice in the late Fall but then she kept making excuses why she couldn't go out with me each time I asked. It ended up she had started dating him and had changed her mind again. Link to comment
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