She went cold, should I text and confirm our date?

[yeahyeahyeah]

Ok so we met up. First reaction when seeing her was that she was pretty overweight, it then made sense why all of her photos were face shots. I was not physically attracted because of her weight, and that bothered me throughout the date. I kept thinking to myself, if only she was 10 pounds lighter. Sighing.

 

We had a drink, asked many open ended questions about her, she talked endlessly. We then had a walk, she showed me some new spots in London, I was impressed, we then went to the station, ended it thanking her for the wonderful date, kiss on the cheeks then left it at that. She told me that she had a good time, and told me to keep in touch.

 

Anyway, got back home, she sent me a text apologising for talking about herself too much, and that she was really nervous on the date. How she enjoyed talking to me.

 

I feel bad, she has a lovely personality, and I am finding it hard to bring myself to reject her. Normally I am the one getting rejected, so empathize.

[yeahyeahyeah]

Trying to reject her gently by not making any effort, and responding with closed answers. She keeps on writing to me asking me how I am etc.

 

Very depressed by my ex, signed up for counselling.

[boltnrun]

Please tell her you realize you're not ready to date due to your recent breakup. Seems like she's already attached to you, so please let her know asap.