I get nervous when she wants to make a move and i dont know why

[Shiccaa]

I am 16yr male and I've got no trouble talking to girls. I've been told on many occasions that I'm quite attractive and charismatic. My problem is that whenever I know she wants to go do something aka hook up i get this sinking feeling in my stomach and i get really nervous and try to make excuses.

 

just for background, I have had hookups but i went through a messy breakup a few months back.

 

This happened to me at a party a week back. I was talking to a girl that i thought was really attractive and all was going well she was interested. Then she asked if we could go somewhere more private, at this point is when i internally freaked out and i regret not accepting. ( fyi i said i lost my friend and he might be hurt.. he was drunk).

 

TL;DR I get scared when i realise that she wants to make a move and i buckle. HELLLPPPP!!!

[Wiseman2]

Reschedule on your timeline so you are in control rather than think you have to act there and then. Smile, act confident, ask them out and get in control of the situation.