Brokenheartedm Posted May 20, 2017 Share Posted May 20, 2017 I had this friend since grade school literally first grade i was in second grade ( he was in grade below me) my ex was in his grade but i didnt start dating her after highschool we are all mutual friends and fireman. From day one he found out i started liking this girl right away he was like she wont date my best friends, i was like if you like her i will back off, no no she is a sister. So i was like okay im going to keep pursuing, and i pursed longer than i shouldve but i got her in the end. During chasing he said negative stuff, while dating he told me i was a place holder and she settled for me, but how is she settling when she had plenty opportunites to date anyone else, nobody forced her to date me..... she chose to. While dating we barely talked for 4 months and he cut her off completely again they are like brother and sister, and if she stayed with me thru that i knew she loved me. Now we are broken up and some days he is like she hates you and other days he tells me not to go back to her its really hurtful and confusing and pushing me from stopping to try and clear air with her. (But that never stopped me the first time) i never once told him anything negative about this girl he is pursing that kinda playsa games why couldnt he just let me be happy why couldnt he just accept it, well talking to my ex one night while we were together and actually loved eachother she told me he tried to pursue her but she friendzoned him. So my question is why did he lie when i asked if he wanted her he hasnt pursued her anymore, why cant he leave me alone about it now why does he feel the need to remind me she "hates me" when others friends say she tried to tell me about our cat being pregnant, or that she became a fireman to bother me. He also said everyone is glad we arent together she was toxic and blah blah it hurts , and another reason i was the way i was durig our relationship always feeling like crap cause inwas told i was a place holder or she "settled" i felt i couldnt trust her but at same time if she really cared about what they said she wouldve left, she lefr cause my attiutude got worse about it all i maybe got alittle controlling and possessive. But it hurts still hearing she hates me part of me believe him and part of me doesnt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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