Natalie20 Posted May 19, 2017 Share Posted May 19, 2017 Hey, I am on here again, because of a situation I have found myself in, to cut a long story short, after my last post I forgot about that boy, October turned to January and I became friends with a boy from Spain at uni, doing his last year in UK, we became very good friends and then (please don't judge me) we decided to become friends with benefits, he respects me.. I respect him.. we still go places together which doesn't involve the 'benefits' part... anyway in this time, I have started to like him, which has grown more since we started the 'benefits' part a month ago, He leaves in a month to go back to Spain, he says I can come and visit anytime, also after his exams finish next week, we plan to go and visit places etc.. but I don't know if I should tell him that I like him or not? I don't want to ruin our friendship, because if he doesn't feel the same way, even our friendship will be gone, but is starting to hurt me inside, what we are doing is intimate, it makes me feel so close to him, which makes me like him more Maybe he feels the same way? But I don't know Because the 'friends with benefits' situation I still.keep my distance.. if that makes sense.. like I haven't let my walls down, so maybe he feels I am not interested in that way, as well my parents don't know when I go to see him and he knows that, so maybe that plays a part as well in thinking I just see it as friends as well? I would like some advice of what to do, shall I say nothing and just keep friends with him? Or do I say I like him which could potentially ruin the complete friendship? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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