abitconfused1607310579 Posted May 16, 2017 Share Posted May 16, 2017 Hi I'm married with kids to a lovely man who I met when I was 17 and have been with ever since (I'm currently late 30s). Last 2-3 months I have been experiencing an intense crush on a man I see every day (school run, he is stay-at-home dad). He also married with kids. Nothing inappropriate has/will happen, just maybe some eye contact and a few pleasantaries, conversations about the kids etc. I guess I smile at him in a nice way but try not to flirt etc too much but I am naturally quite friendly. I also guess I try to dress/look nice if I think I might see him.... But inside I am dying with lust/attraction to this man! Think crush/infatuation, mainly a reaction to his physical appearance and I guess he seems like a great dad too. Anyway, today he happens to tell me his wife is pregnant. Now, of course I feel like an awful/terrible person for even having a crush on this man. I need it to stop completely but I am not sure how. I was quite enjoying my little fantasy but now feel just dreadful. What is the best way to get over a crush (have to see him everyday so cannot really avoid completely)? Thanks ABC Link to comment
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