maccerz Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 There's a personal trainer in my gym who I've known for years, I used to do PT with him and we always got on pretty well. Awhile ago we matched on tinder and chatted a bit on it. Over Christmas when he was drunk he messaged me on it asking me on a date but nothing ever materialized. After that there was a period where anytime I saw him in the gym I'd just feel very awkward and avoid him. I eventually stopped feeling that way and started having chats with him again when I'd see him in there. Last week I put an instagram story up, he private messaged me asking something about it and then started asking me how I was etc. For a week we were messaging back and forth on it nonstop but I didn't think a whole lot of it cause he didn't appear to be asking me out. Then the other night when I came home after a night out (I was a bit drunk) he was messaging me, he himself had not been out but he had been in his friend's and had had a few drinks. Anyway we were chatting away and he ended up asking me if I'd like to go for a drink with him. He gave a specific date and I told him I wasn't sure if I'd be working that day but that I'd check my roster in work and I'd let him know. I also said that if it did turn out I was working then I'd be happy to do a different day if he's available. He said that sounded good and to let him know. The following morning we messaged a little bit but it dwindled quite quickly... I have this gut feeling that he may regret having asked me out. He didn't bring up the date the following morning and we haven't spoken since. I had said I'd let him know about my schedule but I'm a bit reluctant to now because what if he regrets it.. I use the gym a lot and would hate to feel like s*** going there because I messaged him and he didn't respond or shot the idea down. Am I better off just forgetting it? Link to comment
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