Natalia2121 Posted May 15, 2017 Share Posted May 15, 2017 I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. I'm 21 and he's 23. We had an amazing beginning as do all relationships. At first he was my price charming, always opened the door, laughed with me, enjoyed my company, made me feel like his everything. At times he still does but rarely, doesn't even wait for me when I get out the car. We now fight every week. We started living together last July. Things were nice until recently. Mind you he has always had a bad temper. We fight every weekend but he starts it. He's angered by small things which turns into huge fights. He gives me the cold shoulder and I need to ask what's wrong and play the guessing game. He says everything is my fault and I don't know how to behave, which I don't know what that means. He was mad to go to my family dinner because in his country they don't celebrate mothers day. He hates that every time I go to a family event that he needs to go. But we talked about marriage and we already live together. I don't want to not bring him. I said fine I'll stop asking you everytime but he gets so mad and starts calling me names and then points out all my bad things like I don't cook enough or clean enough and how ty I dress and how I force him to do things he doesn't like and etc. He made such a fit he didn't even eat at the dinner. Everything was paid for for him but he was too stubborn to eat, then saying it's my fault on how I need to change. I told him I don't know what I need to do he said figure it out i've told you plenty of times. I'm just going to focus on me and he says he's going to just do his own thing but I'm so used to being with him. I'm so heartbroken I love him so much but he then ends up telling me "I care about my health more than us." Which obviously shows he's giving up on us. I cook, clean, I try to be nice, I love spending time with him when hes happy but blames his anger and stress on me, saying I cause it. I told him no matter which girl you end up with you will always be mad but he disagreed. I want to want him to want me again I just don't know what to do. I'm so heartbroken and he refuses to hangout for a little while he's obsessed with smoking weed and chilling with his friends so he's always with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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