PJOMG0022 Posted May 14, 2017 Share Posted May 14, 2017 So.... A few weeks ago an old acquaintance of mine texted me out of the blue and asked to meet up. I agreed and so a few days later I met up with him. It was a lovely evening and by the end of night he said that he always liked me and wanted to have casual hook up every now and then. He tried to kiss me but I refused and said I wanted to take things slow but I'm up for a causal hook up. At that point in my life I wasn't looking for anything serious. On the second "date" we made out and he wanted to have sex in the toilet but I refused and said I don't work like that and would perfer a nice bed. He said ok and a few days later asked me to come over his place. He asked me to come early morning cuz he wanted to spend the entire day with me and I said I can come for the afternoon. Then the day before we were meant to meet up he said he wasn't able to do the whole day and can only do late at night around 8. I said I can't make it for 8 as I was gonna leave his place around that time as I needed to be somewhere else. So, I asked we should reschedule, he said ok. The next day I get a text from him saying he is not up for the hook up anymore. I told him it was a shame and that it's all good. A week later I text him saying we should be friends and meet up to catch up cuz I felt guilty for some reason. He replied three days later saying sure and that he was free that day to meet up. I was busy that day and asked to meet up for Saturday instead, he said he was busy that day and that he can do Sunday, I agreed. When Saturday came I got a text from him saying he wanted to meet up on Saturday if I was still free instead of Sunday. I was free so I didn't mind and said ok. But while we were confirming the details he disappeared. Later on the day I texted him why he wanted to meet up if he wasn't going to go through with it. He never texted. So, I moved on started seeing other people and a week or so later I was on a date and it didn't go so well and I left half an hour into the date. I was really nicely dressed and I didn't want my efforts to go to wasted. So I started calling my friends to see if anyone was free, it was extremely last minute so I didn't expect much and like I thought they were all busy. So I randomly texted the guy, thinking what's the worst that can happen and asked if he was free. He texted me straight away but he said that he was at work and he wasn't free in the evening. I asked him does he really need to work today. He goes not really so I told him to meet up and he can go when he needs to leave for the evening. We met up and out of no where we had a streamy makeout session. Tbh I wasn't expecting it but I didn't mind it either. He said he wanted to meet up next week at his and I said I would like that. And later we went our separate ways. Later on I texted him that it was fun seeing him again cuz he had to rush and didn't get to say bye properly. Again he didn't reply. The next day which is today, I texted him something naughty but he hasn't replied. It's been a few hours now. I don't know, I am new to hook up and causal things so wanted to know if this is normal and if I should keep him around. Tbh I think I may be starting to like him. Don't know if i should continue (cuz I do want to have sex with him) and assume this little crush would fade away. Or cut him off completely cuz he is just keeping me as a option for a rainy day. And what if what I'm feeling is not a silly crush is there any way now for me to become his priority??? Link to comment
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