My wife ended our marriage

[Paulstevens]

Our two completely separate life's came together when I moved into the area she lived. She worked in a cafe and I visited often. I was attracted to her from early on. After about a year or so she fell into a personal mental breakdown and I became her shoulder to cry one. Eventually she developed feelings for me and we started dating. Keeping a long story short after 3 years of amazing time together she asked me to marry her. By now I was so totally in love with her and I thought she felt the same. We married later that year. Now less than eight months later we have parted. She says that she no longer loves me. She has changed so much. She deeply cares for me and she's so so sorry for the pain she has put me through. But the fact is I can't cope. I'm falling apart. I'm a 49 year old man but I'm crying like a child constantly. I have no friends or family close by. I'm living in a caravan and I'm dying inside. I know she don't love me and I know I have to accept that but it's so hard. I'm scared that I won't get through this. I've never been so sad in my life.

[melancholy123]

Please get some counselling to learn how to cope with this sad situation. It doesnt sound like you can do this on your own.

[Giblesp]

Sounds like she was just leaning on you until her wounds healed, and then moved on. Believe it or not, you've lost nothing and she's just done you the biggest favor, you just don't realize it yet.

 

The best thing to do right now, is to look after yourself first and foremost. Your saying you moved to her area, do you have friends and family in the area you came from? Would you consider moving back there?

[Wiseman2]

Sorry this is happening. Are you divorcing or just moved out into the trailer for now? Can you move back home for support and to get a better perspective? How old is she?

We married later that year. Now less than eight months later we have parted. She says that she no longer loves me. I have no friends or family close by. I'm living in a caravan and I'm dying inside.