Stesha Posted May 13, 2017 Share Posted May 13, 2017 My boyfriend has major guilt issues about leaving his exes - never divorced his wife - paid her mortgage until last month. Paid his live -in girlfriends expenses/mortgage forever. We just started re-dating after a long-term youthful relationship - she starved herself and passed out - broke her eye socket, shoulder, and now on disability - he left the house and is paying mortgage - now is doubting that he should have left. We are "happily" living together and sharing rent. But he is having second thoughts. So "entangled" with ex, her son, his cat that they won't give him. What to do? Trying to give him space, but honestly, shouldn't a person learn to deal? He says his wife never found someone. I say she never had to because he made it so she never really had motivation - she remained the "Mrs" of a lawyer and he paid her mortgage while he moved to a smaller place. Same thing will happen here. I am so upset. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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