Informed101 Posted May 11, 2017 Share Posted May 11, 2017 I am asking a question I feel I know the answer to because my GF plays everything off like it's always me and she's never in the wrong. So here's my question: First, my GF does not list herself on her FB as being "in a relationship." We dated / lived together about four years ago for a year and half. Back in October 2016 we started dating again. We probably spend the night together at least three or four nights a week. She often posts pics of herself, always looking hot and never goofy pics, and most of the pics elicit responses from guys saying how they love her or how beautiful and amazing she is, etc. Guys are always flirting with her on FB. She responds to these comments with a "like." I have no idea what communications/messages she sends, if any, with her FB friends. Almost all of the comments and likes are from men. I have expressed to her that this seeking of attention makes me uncomfortable but she responds stating she is free to live her life. (As though facebook was "living.") Of course this is true....and she's free to ruin a real world relationship as well, is my thinking. Just because you are free to do something doesn't mean there aren't consequences. She even calls these people her "fans" but she is not a singer, actor, writer, etc. Anyway, today is my birthday and of all days she posts a "Facebook memory" from this same date, that is my birthday, from a year. The photograph is her on a boat, probably a 40 foot boat expensive looking boat She is laying down on the front of the boat and the caption says my Girlfriend's name "with" this other guy and it states his name. He is also laying down on the front of the boat. When you click on his facebook page photos it's clear he's a player. Is she being insensitive by posting this photo on my birthday? After all, she already posted it once and it remains in her FB photo album. Thoughts? Link to comment
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