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If your boyfriend can go twelve hours without talking to you does that mean he is talking to other females?

 

 

My boyfriend has texted me back for twelve hours. I mean who can go twelve hours without talking to their gf/bf like in between those hours not unless their sleep.

 

I haven't talked to him since like 10am or 11am and it makes me wonder if he's talking to other females. I did have a gut feeling that he was but then I blew it off because I thought it was my imagination or whatever.

 

My cousin volunteered for me to catfish him using her pictures but I don't know if I should. I did that before and I got caught but I know I won't this time.

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If your boyfriend can go twelve hours without talking to you does that mean he is talking to other females?.

It could also mean he is losing interest and is not invested.

 

My cousin volunteered for me to catfish him using her pictures but I don't know if I should.

 

Please DON'T do this. It's a really really bad idea messing around with people like that. I know you're very young (17) and have a lot of growing up to do, so let this me lesson #1 - do NOT mess people around. It will almost always come back to bite you in the a$$. Karma.

 

Is this the cyber "relationship" guy?

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It could also mean he is losing interest and is not invested.

 

 

 

Please DON'T do this. It's a really really bad idea messing around with people like that. I know you're very young (17) and have a lot of growing up to do, so let this me lesson #1 - do NOT mess people around. It will almost always come back to bite you in the a$$. Karma.

 

Is this the cyber "relationship" guy?

 

And yes he just lives two hours away from me. But I don't know how he truly feels towards me. We got in a small disagreement last night about me sending half naked pictures which I told him I WOULD NOT DO but regular pictures I will.

 

And I was telling him about how this girl sent her boyfriend pictures like that and he showed it to everybody but he swore on his dead uncle that he wouldn't do nothing like that. But not to be disrespectful or anything but his uncle is dead (RIP) and when it comes to him swearing on his uncle it means nothing to me--those are just words and I'm confused on if I should move on or not. Today our conversation was boring like it was just one-worded text messages. I don't know what to do.

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I don't know what to do.

Dump him once and for all. He's an immature jerk and if you believe him that he won't share your naked pictures, then you are incredibly naive (sorry). He's showing you his true colors.

 

Block. Delete. Move on. End of story.

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You were very, very smart to say no to his demands for naughty pics. Here's a rule - if you are not willing to have those pictures be seen by everyone including all future bosses, future loves, your own kids in the future, your grandparents, your parents and yes even the teacher or worst bully who hated you in your school then do not send any pics of you in any sort of compromising anything 0 videos either.

 

And it sounds like your boyfriend is now "punishing" you by refusing to talk to you after you told him you would not send him those pictures. And guess what? Anyone who goes all passive aggressive on you, who punishes you for saying no to something that makes you uncomfortable and could hurt you a lot in the future is someone who a) does not love and b) will most definitely without a doubt share the damned pics or videos somewhere down the line.

 

Dump him. In fact, the minute you said no and he started to argue you should have just said, "We're done here," and blocked and deleted him.

 

This isn't a boyfriend. This is someone who wants to exploit you. Only people with bad intentions get upset when someone says no to something they don't and should not feel comfortable doing.

 

Him talking to other girls is sounds like it's the least of your problems. Him bullying you into sending compromising pics he could use to blackmail or humiliate you with in the future is a far, far, far greater red flag. Time to love yourself more. Not every guy out there or gals even will ask you to do that then throw a tantrum about it - only the bad ones.

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Dump him once and for all. He's an immature jerk and if you believe him that he won't share your naked pictures, then you are incredibly naive (sorry). He's showing you his true colors.

 

Block. Delete. Move on. End of story.

 

Thanks a lot. I really needed this advice.

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Does he eat, sleep, shower, go to work or school? Have you met in person? Why do you have to stare at your phone waiting for texts? Your cousin sounds creepy and not that smart..

I haven't talked to him since like 10am or 11am and it makes me wonder if he's talking to other females.My cousin volunteered for me to catfish him using her pictures but I don't know if I should. I did that before and I got caught but I know I won't this time.
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1. Asking for pictures like that is a power play move. If you do send even one, then its a victory and he knows you like him, then he can do pretty much what you want.

 

2. You are young and pictures like that NEVER go away so its easier not to send them than it is to get people to not see them.

 

3. If you are having this much drama with a guy who lives 2 hrs away whom you never met, then in all honesty its not going to work out. Dont do internet dating. Date someone you have actually met. (just my two cents)

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