jaredmb05 Posted May 10, 2017 Share Posted May 10, 2017 I started dating this person a few months out of my three year relationship. He is a very good looking model so I was enamored by his looks and charm. However, something about him made me want to keep my distance. Things like: He was very closed off emotionally and admitted he doesn't like talking about his feelings Thought he was kind of annoying at times Didn't know what he wanted to do with his like (at 34) and had no drive or desire Modeling wasn't working out so well so money was tight The way he dressed was kinda bad Didn't like the same music or same interests He was a hermit and didn't like to go out. Cheated on his ex I wanted to hang out with him because I had a good time when I did but I never took it seriously. Well one day we had plans (for two weeks) to introduce him to his friends and he cancelled half an hour before. I was pissed. To the point where I ended it. I didn't want to get in another bad thing. Well a month later he called me and we reconnected. He was suppose to be my date to a christmas party and he flaked once again last minute leaving me by myself. Again, didnt care and I ended it. This happened three more times everytime with an excuse that he was scared. Well the final time he said he was ready to commit and give me what I needed and wanted in a relationship. We dated for a month and a half and I fell in love with him. I was able to look past everything and really enjoyed spending time with him. We spent everyday together. One morning last week we got in a not so heated argument and he ended it. Shortly after I had found out from my best friend that my now ex had texted him twice while with me (one time I was passed out) telling him to come over to my apartment. Both times, my friend thought it was like a threesome type of thing because my ex would always say he was with me and my friend never would respond (i saw the messages). Well I confronted my ex and he said it was because he was wasted and had taken adderrall which he never does which made him super sexual and make dumb decisions. He said nothing would have happened and that he was sorry. Either way I axed it for good. I told him NEVER to contact me or my friends again and we both blocked him. If this guy was so toxic and so everything I dont want in a partner, why do I feel so sick to my stomach now? I feel like I made the right decision but any words to make me feel better would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! Link to comment
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