jennylove Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 I literally don't understand how this certain person is wired because my wiring is very different. I'm just trying to understand her better. So here is what I don't "get". She'll tell me about someone she doesn't like, and she'll follow it up with stories of what this person said/did to her to cause her to dislike that person. And it's always pretty legitimate reasons to not like someone, nothing has ever seemed petty. If there is someone whom I dislike because of something that they've done to me, I do my best to avoid them, but I'll be civil should I see them. And by civil, I mean a simple hello or head-nod in passing. Nothing more. But the person I'm speaking of will be really friendly towards the person that she "dislikesl and act like things are great between them when just last week, she told me of how crappy that person is to her. I get some people are phony and fake, which is why I understand her being friendly to the person when their paths cross. But what I don't get is how she'll then tell me about their run-in and ramble on to me like they are Bff's, as if she's forgotten that just last week she was telling me otherwise. Yes, forgiveness happens. But this is it's extreme. It's happened 2 times this year alone with the same person. It's like she goes from disliking then to idolizing them. I seriously don't understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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