CBC2000 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 So the other day I went out with a guy who i dated 4 years ago ( I ended the relationship after a month). He randomly called me a few weeks ago after not talking to him for a whole year. He asked me out, I was a bit hesitant about going out with him, but I decided to give him another chance. Anyways when we went out he was moving way too fast for me, I feel like the violated me in a way. For it to be the first date since 2012 he tried kissing me on the neck and even put his hand in between my legs ( I had pants on, but he touched my v area). Ever since that day I've been super irritated and every time I think about this I get angry because I feel like he didn't have respect for me. The day after us going out together he texted me asking how If I had fun the night before. I just told him that he was moving way too fast for me and left it at that, he apologized, but I'm still pissed and I have been ignoring his texts all day. Should I tell him how I feel or should I just not say anything and move on with my life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jy1986usa Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Just tell him you're not interested in a second date. And if he doesn't respect that then block him and move on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt3939 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Considering how you feel I'd just ignore him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBC2000 Posted May 8, 2017 Author Share Posted May 8, 2017 Just tell him you're not interested in a second date. And if he doesn't respect that then block him and move on. Thanks, if he texts me again tomorrow I will give him enough respect to tell him exactly what made me angry and then block him after Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glitterfingers Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Personally, I wouldn't give him a second chance. Kick him to the curb. You're right, that is disrespectful for any man to do to any woman unless it's been explicitly agreed to prior. I had an ex treat me this way in public after being together 2 years and I still do not find that acceptable Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBC2000 Posted May 8, 2017 Author Share Posted May 8, 2017 Personally, I wouldn't give him a second chance. Kick him to the curb. You're right, that is disrespectful for any man to do to any woman unless it's been explicitly agreed to prior. I had an ex treat me this way in public after being together 2 years and I still do not find that acceptable He actually just called me a few minutes ago. I decided to pick up and I told him the specifics of what made me feel so disrespected. He asked me what he could do to make this right and I explained to him that he needs to just leave me alone and let forget about it myself because I am disturbed by him and he seemed to understand Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limichelle Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Good for you! You knew your own boundaries and stood up for yourself. Lisa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glitterfingers Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 He actually just called me a few minutes ago. I decided to pick up and I told him the specifics of what made me feel so disrespected. He asked me what he could do to make this right and I explained to him that he needs to just leave me alone and let forget about it myself because I am disturbed by him and he seemed to understand That is very good, that you had the assertiveness to answer his call and explain this to him. You should feel proud of yourself for the standard of behaviour you are setting Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hollyj Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Just block him. He goes not deserve any consideration. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Sounds like he recently got dumped and went backtracking through the black book to look for an easy hookup. Good you blocked and deleted him. Was he a jerk when you last dated?He randomly called me a few weeks ago after not talking to him for a whole year. he tried kissing me on the neck and even put his hand in between my legs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CBC2000 Posted May 8, 2017 Author Share Posted May 8, 2017 Sounds like he recently got dumped and went backtracking through the black book to look for an easy hookup. Good you blocked and deleted him. Was he a jerk when you last dated? He wasn't a jerk, he told me he loved me after 3 weeks of dating and got upset when I didn't say it back so I dumped him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 Agree. Doesn't that sound kind of forward and clingy to you?he told me he loved me after 3 weeks of dating and got upset when I didn't say it back so I dumped him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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