Mindy2811 Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 So earlier this morning my boyfriend of 3 months calls me telling me he needs a favor. He needed me to come get him and his 2 kids because they were stuck in the Mudd out in the woods. So without hesitation I got my 2 children ready in a very big rush dropped them off at a sitter rushed up where he was was called him 10 times to conform where he was but no answer. Then when I was 10 minutes away from the destination he called and said a few strangers stopped to help dig me out so we don't need you to come. I laughed and said so you couldn't have to me this 20 minutes ago before I got to almost where you were. Then I thought he lost cell services I said hello twice because I wanted to ask if he was alright no answer so I hung up. We'll that's when it happened he texted me telling me he would never ask for my help ever again and we are done goodbye. He is now ignoring me because he thinks I don't care and I was giving him big attitude. Even though he broke up with me I continued to try to find where he was because I do care but he refuses to answer me. Now not sure what to think Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mavrik Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 I think he's just angry and gone into a sulk The stress of being stuck and his kids being with him also. Let him calm down and leave it for him to contact you, if he hasn't got in touch in a couple of days then make contact But I'm sure he's just angry and annoyed, it will be ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 Let him cool off and wait for him to contact you. Do not just show up or confront him or keep trying to call. How long have you been dating and what are the other arguments about? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mindy2811 Posted May 7, 2017 Author Share Posted May 7, 2017 We have been dating 3 months. And we only ever had one small argument Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissCanuck Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 I see his reaction as a red flag. I can understand being irritated, but hanging up on you and then ending the relationship altogether? Holy over-reaction, Batman. Not someone who is going to be able to weather life's storms with you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartGoesOn Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 I would thank him for showing you what he's all about, before you made the mistake of falling for him. Let him throw his tantrums elsewhere. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melancholy123 Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 He sounds like a big baby. You tried to help, he got help elsewhere, and then gives you grief. I see a red flag too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glitterfingers Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 Potential miscommunication between you two on the day confounded by stress, can never tell for sure until you have a chance to both calm down and talk it over. I would make your decision about his behaviour based on whether he treats you respectfully and chooses to try and talk things through in the next few days. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mindy2811 Posted May 7, 2017 Author Share Posted May 7, 2017 Yes I agree completely.and thank you so much for your reply. But he told me to call in 20 minutes so he could tell me where he was. When I did no answer for at least 15 minutes after. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Matt3939 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 It's just miss communication with how it went down he might have really lost it. I would have just left a message or a text/email explaining what happened then wait. If he keeps on with this after a good explination then its a red flag anyway. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
No1 Posted May 8, 2017 Share Posted May 8, 2017 I would agree with Canuck and Heart. A guy can act cool for about 90days before his true self shows up. You said it has been around 3 months and guess who showed up. Would you want someone like that around your kids? If he calls you back, thank him for showing you who he really is. There is someone out there better for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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