moving on and loving myself

[SadSadgirl]

as some of you may know ive gotten out of a breakup about 3 months ago and it hurt me very badly. i am seeing a therapist and taking antidepressants.

 

anyway, i've confided in one of my guy best friends and i'm really starting to like him he calls me beautiful, gives me massages, orders pizza and really nice things. i can tell he likes me too. we talk on the phone and play video games together too.

 

i never thought i'd be able to move on but now i finally am and i feel so happy. i'm crying while typing this because i feel so much stronger and smarter. i'm happy whenever i look in the mirror and i'm taking care of myself more than I was when i was dating my ex.

 

my best friend is SUPER patient with me, especially when i randomly get triggered and breakdown. i'm very thankful for him. he knows i have problems and he knows he can't fix them, but he wants to support me and encourage me.

 

if you're going through a breakup, just know someone better will come for you. whether it be a year or a month from now, you'll find happiness again. i thought i would be depressed for a very long time but my ex barely crosses my mind and i don't care about what he's up to anymore.

 

i'm becoming happy again!

[melancholy123]

This should be required reading for the folks on here who seem to believe they will never get over the person who dumped them.

[rolf12]

That's great news😊 I'm slowly gettin over my ex now, we have 0 contact, have each other blocked off everythin, it's tough some days but I'm in a better place that I was even two weeks ago!

[Wiseman2]

Excellent. How did he respond? Are you thinking of dating him?

i've confided in one of my guy best friends and i'm really starting to like him

[Chris323]

Im really happy for you Sag girl, you are a great encouragement.

[SadSadgirl]

Excellent. How did he respond? Are you thinking of dating him?

 

sorry for the late reply!

yes, we both like each other and I want to date him. school is a big work load right now so i decided to wait until schools over so it won't be a big stress

[SadSadgirl]

Im really happy for you Sag girl, you are a great encouragement.

 

thank you! I'm glad I'm able to help people!

[LordRorek]

I'm glad for you. I am trying to move on and love myself too. I just hope I can get where you are now.

[SadSadgirl]

I'm glad for you. I am trying to move on and love myself too. I just hope I can get where you are now.

 

yes you will be. but it just wont happen out of nowhere, you need to take the steps needed to start healing. good luck to you