Kemiee Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 I have a? I been with my girl for 3 and a half years we have a son together we had a great sexual relationship before and all of a sudden she said she is celibate n she don't want to have sex before marriage so I ask her can u masterbate me and she said no I don't want to leave her cause I do love her but it seems as though we communicated and hang out we relax together but it seems pointless without sex she said she want to get right with God I am to but I have urges I don't know what to do anymore Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAmFCA Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 Do you want her in your future as your only? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Capttrae Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 She's cut you off untill y'all get hitched. If you can see yourself with her anyway, and y'all already have a family, why not go ahead and tie the knot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IAmFCA Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 She's cut you off untill y'all get hitched. If you can see yourself with her anyway, and y'all already have a family, why not go ahead and tie the knot Exactly. Perhaps you havent thought about it - if you want her, its time to embrace tradition. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wiseman2 Posted May 6, 2017 Share Posted May 6, 2017 Why does someone you live with this long and have a child with suddenly want to be celibate? Is this some type of religious conversion or holding out for a ring? It sounds like you are not going to have sex with her until you marry her. Are you the same religion? Clearly "living in sin" and having "out of wedlock" kids is a huge change from this sudden bizarre "no sex without marriage" stance, no? I been with my girl for 3 and a half years we have a son together we had a great sexual relationship before and all of a sudden she said she is celibate n she don't want to have sex before marriage. she want to get right with God Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rezie Posted May 7, 2017 Share Posted May 7, 2017 Have you talked about it? Has she now joined a church or always been religious? If it's sudden then it's slightly worrying. Joining any organisation that suddenly changes your values is never a good sign (political, religious etc). I'm assuming that when you started a family you discussed about the future if it includes marriage. What did you agree then? If this is her way to get you to propose then this is pretty much blackmail which is not ok. Also your comment about spending time as a family is pointless without sex is very disrespectful and immature. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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