Avy Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 So, months ago I bought tickets for my boyfriend and I to attend a concert. He wanted this. He agreed to go before I bought them. The concert is next month. Both my boyfriend and I were married before. I am divorced. He is in the process of divorce, but has been separated 4 years. We both have children from our marriages. Today, he told me that he cannot come to the concert, because his ex wants to go to that concert and so he has agreed to mind their child. He did not consult with me about this. He simply told me that's what was happening. He says she doesn't go out often, and she often accommodates him with child minding arrangements and so he wants to give back to her. That sounds great...very thoughtful.....towards her. But what about me? Now my plans are thrown in the air. I either have to find someone else to go with me, or go alone and sell the ticket (if i can). I feel like he has blown me off for his ex. Incidentally, his ex knows nothing about me and I have never been allowed to meet his child, although he has met my children (we are together almost a year). I have met members of his family - but where his ex is concerned I do not exist. I feel very hurt by the concert cancellation. Am I being unfair? Link to comment
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