boxingguy Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 As the title entails, my girlfriend and her ex (as told by her) had sex every day for the first four month of their relationship and once a week there after (they were together for a little over eight months). Her ex was the only guy she ever had sex with, and the last time she had sex was two years ago after they broke up. Also the guy was packing heat, she said he was quite large. He basically went to town on her, and let's say he hit every major store. Oral, anal, vaginal, etc. The thing that bothered me the most was when she said she would kiss his penis after every blowjob. I myself, however am a virgin. My only sexual experience has been with my ex girlfriend when I was in High School (now 21 and I hold different values compared to then), and that was around a 15 second blowjob and she stopped because we were in a public area. I had a few other close sexual encounters afterward, but I stopped everytime it was going beyond just groping (one girl wanted sex with no condom neither of us had one). I'm a traditional kind of guy (not religious), and would prefer to just reserve "making love" to just that and NOT degrade it to only sexual pleasure. Oh, and I'm average, though my girth is slightly on the thinner side. Anyways my girlfriend says she wants to do all these sexual things with me, however it is not only my character that stops me from letting her, but big portion of it is because it makes me uncomfortable (due to her past). Do women miss their ex sexually? Does she still think about her ex's "quite large" penis? Will she think of him during our sexual interactions? Also she would kiss his penis... after every oral session.. and they had sexual intercourse EVERYDAY for FOUR month. Wow. I haven't kissed her strongly since she told me, just like slight peck now. Very light peck (also I notice I lean away now unintentionally). *******TLDR, long story short******* I'm a virgin with average Penis but slightly thin girth, girlfriend is not a virgin. She had Sex everyday with ex who had a "quite large" penis for 4 months straight. Her past bothers me, do women think about their ex when with their new boyfriend? Should I just "get over it"? P.S. I only brought it up once with her, but instead of talking about it she got upset and basically made me seem like a villian. Please advise. Thank you very much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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