Erroca Posted May 4, 2017 Share Posted May 4, 2017 My ex and I (we are both 21 years old females) broke up because after 4 intensive weeks of an amazing relationship, she started to feel depressed and confused (lost her job and energy and I felt like it affects me) she said she doesn't want to hurt me anymore and can't focus on a relationship right now, so she needs to focus on herself. We met on a dating app for women, and she said I was her healthiest relationship and all of her friends always told me how glad they are she's finally dating someone like me. She said she still wants to keep in touch and still has feelings for me and wants me in her life, but I said it's going to be too hard for me and I'm going no contact with her until I feel I'm ready to be just friends, and she can only contact me if she ever makes up her mind again. It's been a 5 weeks to the break up but 3 weeks into no contact, and about two weeks ago I downloaded the dating app again just out of boredom and started talking to that girl. She was very interesting so we went on a date, but then I felt like I'm not ready for anything serious, anyway aout a week and a half later I wanted to see her again. We met at a ladies night in a bar my ex NEVER goes there, but on that one night she showed up with her friends and I think they saw me on a date. Anyway, 5 weeks ago I saw my ex on the dating app, and since it was before we broke up COMPLETELY I asked how come she donwloaded the app since she said she doesn't want anything new, and she said she just did it out of boredom and really DOESN'T want anything new, and doesn't want to move on, just to work on herself and was kinda upset that I wanted to move on?? Since then I didn't see her, but yesterday another friend of mine said she saw her there, so she obviously blocked me. Why?? Do you think it is out of boredom again? Yes, I'm dating another girl now, but I told that girl that I just got out of a break-up and I don't know what I'm looking for, so it is probably duty dating but why is my ex on that dating site? ***SHE IS NOT THE TYPE OF GIRL WHO'S INTO ONE NIGHT STANDS, SHE ALWAYS SAID THAT*** Thanks for reading. Link to comment
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