stopnshop Posted May 2, 2017 Share Posted May 2, 2017 I've been dating this great guy for several weeks now and I'm 99.9% sure I'm a rebound. When we first started dating he told me he was in a long-term relationship before and I brushed it off thinking it didn't really matter. But now that things are getting more serious, I'm having a lot of doubts. He was with his ex-girlfriend for 5 years and we started dating only 4 months after their break-up. When I voiced my concerns about that, he said they were both unhappy for at least 2 years but neither of them did anything about it. It only ended after he found out she'd been cheating on him. He also mentioned he already had a few rebounds in the 4 months we weren't dating and he's already moved on. Obviously, I'm really skeptical. He's extremely thoughtful and sweet and he treats me like I'm the best thing in the world. But it feels like he's trying to progress too fast. When we're spending time together, he'll often say 'Where have you been all my life?" as if I'm the one he's been waiting for. I'm so sure he's projecting his feelings and it sucks. The problem is that I really like him and I really want to believe that this could work out but I have a lot of trouble believing his feelings are real. I can't really open myself up to him and let the relationship develop because of this. I guess what I'm asking is: Could this work out? Or should I end things before they get too deep? I'm just not sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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