Confusedjj Posted May 2, 2017 Share Posted May 2, 2017 Hey all, My ex and I broke up just over a month ago. Through out the month of separation, we both have not had space. We have been hanging out, contacting each other, talking over the phone almost everyday. Throughout the month, he did also express that he wanted to be exclusive - however, he has just revealed that he did not mean to say it. He said he was feeling affectionate and that he missed me in that moment. He said our kisses and the touching meant more and more. However, I know we need space. I ultimately want to be back with him but I am trying to meet with other guys and see other people. I have no idea what I need to do to get us to reconcile. He definitely has feelings towards me and I can see that, however, it is not enough to bring him back to me and commit to me. If I walk off, it will hurt and if I stay, it will cause confusion. He seems like hes quite adamant on staying apart, but wants me there for him. And I want him there for me too. He broke up with me initially because he wanted to focus on his future and could not see me there. He also said he expected our relationship to progress further but at the same time, he did not want it to become very serious. I feel like I'm in this middle ground. I thought that when he expressed he wanted to be exclusive, that we were heading back on track. But for him to tell me that it was not what he truly wanted - I'm not sure what to do. Link to comment
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