Mel9037 Posted April 30, 2017 Share Posted April 30, 2017 Hello everyone, i have a serious problem. I have a behavior pattern that repeats shows up every time my relationship gets serious. I had 3 real relationships and number of casual ones and now i am married. Im 26 years old. Every time my relationship gets serious or i start living with a man i start being distant and cold. My interest drastically reduces. I love the person but i stop being excited or sexually interested. I perfectly function in relationship where i don't live with a man, where during the day i have my things to do and meet him evening time for example. I can love a man soo much but still once relationship gets real my love stays but passion fades away. I feel like all the mystery is gone once i am so close to a man and i become so undercover. I literally stop being interesting even for myself and that makes me not interested in my relation. Its like i see a point of a relationship only while it has chase and mind games, and while ppl are not so much in each others business everyday. Long story short if relationship isnt like it is for first 3 months i get lost in it. I still love but i feel towards my man as he was my sibling. I cant stay this way. I need to learn now to keep excitement and how to keep myself excited in long term relationship, especially now that i am married. I dont know why am i like this and what can i do to change this?? Link to comment
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