she wants me back

[hrb23]

You have become empowered by NC, now YOU have a decision to make, be careful not to relinquish that power at any point. If you do it will only end badly for you.

 

Use the time you've taken and then take some more. Unless you're 100% sure going back to her is a good idea you should stay NC. If you're only 99% sure, stay NC.

[LondonMan33]

Update.. well to say its been another crazy episode and every one was correct is an understatement to say the least. I will admit here and now I went back to her I missed the companionship , the sex everything .. She was going gun hoe to get me to move in and I was within a whisker of doing it . tonight I went to her house and asked to use her phone to go on google , my phone does not do internet its old.. anyway I hear this noise and messenger popps up.. i click it and see only last night she has been sex texting an ex who wanted her round his place for sex.. very long communications just like the ones she sends to me.. so I left and have told her I read it all and I hate her guts.. I will never ever ever be back to see her and I never want to see her again.. I now feel free.. this is exactly what I need to happen to me. I am free from this monster.

[Wiseman2]

Let's hope so [-o

I am free from this monster.

[LondonMan33]

Let's hope so [-o

 

 

Wise man you are .. I thought I was until the devil had me under his spell.. I have learnt a very valuable lesson in life. thank you for your wisdom. I will never forget you or this experience. I have never felt so free.

[Annia]

Update.. well to say its been another crazy episode and every one was correct is an understatement to say the least. I will admit here and now I went back to her I missed the companionship , the sex everything .. She was going gun hoe to get me to move in and I was within a whisker of doing it . tonight I went to her house and asked to use her phone to go on google , my phone does not do internet its old.. anyway I hear this noise and messenger popps up.. i click it and see only last night she has been sex texting an ex who wanted her round his place for sex.. very long communications just like the ones she sends to me.. so I left and have told her I read it all and I hate her guts.. I will never ever ever be back to see her and I never want to see her again.. I now feel free.. this is exactly what I need to happen to me. I am free from this monster.

 

She seems to be knd of narcissistic. She doesn't let you leave, it has to be on her terms. So she manipulates you to get back to her, but then at the same time she's moving on to the next supply just in case you go away (sexting that ex). Now you're going to cut communication and she's going to pull the same tricks to get you back in again, because you rejected her and she can't allow that.

I hope that now you can delete and BLOCK all her contacts and resist all her attempts, until she gets tired and finds another supply to mess with and leaves you alone.

 

Good luck!

[LondonMan33]

She seems to be knd of narcissistic. She doesn't let you leave, it has to be on her terms. So she manipulates you to get back to her, but then at the same time she's moving on to the next supply just in case you go away (sexting that ex). Now you're going to cut communication and she's going to pull the same tricks to get you back in again, because you rejected her and she can't allow that.

I hope that now you can delete and BLOCK all her contacts and resist all her attempts, until she gets tired and finds another supply to mess with and leaves you alone.

 

Good luck!

 

Thank you for the reply. As they say love is blind, I really thought it was love after all 7 year is a long time. I have been so silly since the first split months ago, I was given the truth from you all months ago but I was blind to see it. I have had this latest episode and it has been the best thing that could possibly happen to me. I was so close to letting her totally and utter destroy my life. I feel like I have just been released from a 7 year prison sentence. I promise you all I have learnt my lesson and last night will be the last time I ever see her or speak to her again. I just did not believe there could be such evil people out there they are so dangerous . it is frightening.