Findingnemo94 Posted April 26, 2017 Share Posted April 26, 2017 So i've been dating this guy for about 2 months now. On the first date he did casually mention that if i saw other guys he would be upset and it would be a deal breaker. I said i wanted to take things slow and not force it. Anyway..he's been very hot and cold like not texting me for 2 to 3 days at a time and then randomly popping up but seeming normal e.g. 'Hope you've had a good day' etc and he's spoke about me going to see him soon. Anyway, since the last date I didnt hear from him for 3 days roughly so I decided to get back on tinder and messaged a few random guys. I took a guys number and was chatting to him, I found out they were in the same line of work and deleted the app instantly and told him I wasn't interested. Since then I've been feeling seriously guilty because he has been chatting away to me like normal e.g. 'Hope you're having a good day' 'How's your week going etc' but I feel as though the relationship is not moving forward in anyway and kinda unsure where we both stand. But, I do feel horrifically guilty for going back on the site and whenever I chat to another guy and I'm really scared he finds out and never speaks to me again (I have horrible anxiety issues). Why is this? What shall I do? In the first few weeks he also said he only wanted to see me not other girls. That was a while back now though and nothing else has been mentioned of it since. Really don't know how to move the relationship forward or ask what is going on without seeming needy. thanks Link to comment
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