tom1607307597 Posted April 25, 2017 Share Posted April 25, 2017 I've been seeing a girl for about 1-2 weeks now. We've gone on 3 dates so far and we both seem to like each other, which is great! Something has been bugging me lately when I spend time with her. She's noticed this as well but most of the attraction seems physical; we can talk about everyday things like activities, work, our families, etc. but when we run out of things to to talk about we end up filling the awkward pauses with more flirting or kissing. We've been having more and more awkward silences when we have nothing to talk about, but I'm not sure its because we spent too much time talking over the phone early on or we just don't have alot in common. Since I'm not really experienced with dating I'm struggling to know how a boyfriend should act. A lot of the things that come out of my mouth are a result of "what would a good boyfriend say in this situation?". She calls me Bae sometimes and I'm so used to being single that I have trouble calling her Bae back. The daily texting and calling... it feels so strange to me and I'm worried that not contacting her enough to keep her interested. So to sum it all up: 1. We are running out of things to talk about when we talk over the phone, in person, and through text 2. I'm worried I'm not initiating texts and calls enough 3. I'm wondering if the sexual tension is what is making want to see her instead of actually liking her Link to comment
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