Help me

[Billyp89]

Right I have posted on here before about how my ex gf still reaches out to me .. I just can't get over this woman . It's been about 5 months since we broke up because we just wasn't getting along in the end .. it's was her choice and i still wanted to work on things as I still do .. but she doesn't . anyway longest it has been without talking is two weeks , then out the blue i get a message from her saying that her uncle said he misses me and that I was a good one . So couple of short replies back , then that night she sends me a video of a star machine that projects on the wall as she knows I love the stars . Then couple of days later sends me a message that trey songzs has a new album out knowing I'm a big trey songz fan so I reply a couple of times then she just cuts me off and doesn't reply .. couple of days later stupidly I send her a couple of Snapchats and talking etc then I said was nice talking to you and miss ya and take care and she sends me back saying that I need to stop saying take care as its really annoying and apparently I always say it ( just a nice way to say bye ) .. she then calls me moody when I snapped back .. anyway about 4/5 days goes by and she rings me asking if I deleted our shared photo album between our phones because she wanted to look at our pictures . Any way we went on to have a 2 hour conversation and she kept giving examples of when she's talking about me too people about moments we have shared together etc and when she's thinking about me during daily things she's doing .. Then she kept bringing up things we have done together like holidays and activities we have done etc. Then was saying how guys at the gym are jokingly asking her if she wants a boyfriend yet .. but she was saying how she wants to just be single and doesn't want any one ( which is generally true ) then saying how she probably made the wrong choice leaving me but feels it was best and feels like we were best friends more then lovers in the end ( always gives a different reason ) .. then cracking private jokes we shared etc ..... . Anway she came around that night to drop something off stayed for about half n hour again we chatted fine and she said how she probably made the wrong choice but it is what it is .. anyway I txt her when she left and said to not contact me for a while because it's just to hard and she agreed said she understands and that she cares for me still and always will and how this was the hardest thing she has had to do ( leaving me ) but said one day I will meet someone and be happy that she made the decision to leave me . . Now is she just doing this to feel her need when she's missing me or something and comforting her self using me to feel better . . It's just hard as every time I start to make progress it's like women feel it and then contact you and then back to square one again . Sorry for long message guys thanks .. this has been happening since the break up .

[Shunsparkle]

Go no contact. Honestly. If she texts do no answer her. For at least 30 days. I'm currently on day 3 and even though it's tough it will help in the long run.

[Wiseman2]

She seems to want gf privileges but has friendzoned you. Why did you break up?

[Billyp89]

We just wasn't getting along , wasn't understanding each other and didn't appreciate each other plus the romantic side kinda went ..

[kudos]

I agree you need to cut her off, but she sounds like the type that won't deal with it well. So maybe explain what and why your doing it. But you need to do it for you. See how you feel after 1 months no contact. It helps you to see more clearly and decide if it's really what you want, or if it's just emotions holding you in. No one wants a relationship where you don't get on with your partner. Maybe you just need space to see this. There could be someone out there so much better suited to you but while your being strung along with your ex you'll never find her.