Relationships that just keep coming back??

[alirainshire]

So I'll start from the beginning of it all. I had a boyfriend (let's call him #1) and he was my first boyfriend that I was actually super serious with and I went all the way with him, so that was also my first. We dated at the end of 2015 and when we came back from winter break, his best friend moved to our school (he was previously at online school). It was only a couple months into mine and #1's relationship until I broke up with him for his best friend (#2). #2 and I didn't particularly date, but we messed around quite a bit and flirted a ton, but never went past 2nd base. We ended that flirtatious relationship after about a month and a half because he finally felt guilty for doing that to his best friend (now ex-best friend). So when I was hanging out with #2's group of friends, I met another guy (#3). We kinda fell hard for each other and we spent the night with each other a couple times. I was his first to go to 3rd base, and he was my second. But again, we never really dated until the last month of our 5-month flirtatious relationship. While #3 and I were kinda still in the talking stage (not dating yet), I had a one-night stand with another guy (#4). #4 was also in #2 and #3's friend group and he was 5 years older than me. It was only a one-time thing though. Sooooo, then after #3 and I broke up, I got back together with #1. He gave me a second chance and I so willingly took it. We've made it pretty far this time around. But, #3 keeps fighting to get me back because he realized he screwed up the first time. He’s willing to do anything for me, and really, he’s a nice guy. And I actually hung out with him a few times and had sex with him a few times while I’m dating #1 the second time, so I cheated on #1 with #3. And then, #2 keeps coming back. He’s had a girlfriend for over a year now but she wants to wait to go all the way, so he wants to go all the way with me. But he’s very wishy-washy about it. Some nights he really wants to see me and then other days he wants to back out because he doesn’t want anybody getting hurt (considering neither of us are single, but we are willing to cheat). As of right now, I haven’t done anything with #2 since the first time with him. And I am still in a strong relationship with #1, even though he doesn’t know I cheated on him. I need help. I know this is extremely complicated but I am really unsure of what to do. I am aware that cheating is not right and the situations I’ve been in are pretty damn screwed up. But I need someone else’s input.

[Raggie]

No cushioing alert!

Ditch them all, it's all a bit too close, right?

You're not ready to date, so just keep it to flings.

You've made this situation; it's hurting and messing with people, and it's impacting their friendships.

Plus, there is a risk that they'll start to compare - do you want that?

[ThatwasThen]

They're passing you around like you're the football at a Kennedy family reunion. Does that not make you think that maybe you should stop hanging out with your "boyfriends" male friends?

[SooSad33]

Stay away from all... you've gone around the crowd.. and cheated on #1... why?

 

Best to stop all of this.. before you get a bad name for yourself n regret all this.

 

Say NO to anymore.. stop giving in to these games and work on getting yourself together... where someday you'll find a MAN you're truly interested in, enough to NOT cheat on.