My ex is dating a friend and i want her back

[Zswfc09]

My ex who I was with for a total of about 5 months who I still love to pieces. She is now dating my friend who is no longer my friend. We're only young but I still want her back and I would like some help as to what I could maybe do to increase my chance. We still text but to me she seems happy with him but I'm not sure what to do. Any ideas ?

[Clio]

As counterintuitive as it sounds, you need to stop texting/contacting her and try your best to move on. As long as she feels you are still pining/waiting for her, she has no incentive to rethink things. There is no way to make someone come back but staying on is a sure way to be strung along as plan b. Moving one is your best chance either way. P.S. Dating your friend doesn't paint a good picture of her. She is not worth it and blaming your friend of HER decision is missing the point that she doesn't really care about you.

[Raggie]

What happened to make you break up? How long's it been?

 

I'm sorry, but it sounds like she's moving on.

 

Did you fall out with your friend due to this situation? Remember your ex was part of that decision too...

[Wiseman2]

Cut her off completely so she doesn't take you for granted, get the impression dating your friend is cool with you and friendzone you. She can't miss or appreciate you if you buzz around like that. Don't play the fool

 

Talk to other girls, get in shape, get new clothes, hair, etc. Ignore her.

She is now dating my friend who is no longer my friend.We still text but to me she seems happy with him