Jolene576 Posted April 22, 2017 Share Posted April 22, 2017 I am in a situation right now where I am trying to decide what to do as far as divorce is concerned. I hear about the lifelong horrors of divorce and how you never fully recover and that, in some ways, it totally ruins your life and your kids' lives. I have two kids 5 and 8. I don't want to ruin their lives, but I just wonder if there is anyone who is divorced who feels it was the best decision. Me and my husband don't fight constantly, in fact, we barely had any communication at all (not for lack of trying on my part), but then I found out about repeated emotional affairs and over time, things have fallen apart. We have been separated for 3 months and I am doing ok. I don't feel that I miss him or wan't to get back together. But he does. He doesn't want us to get divorced and he wants to do anything he can to save our marriage, but I don't even feel there is a marriage to save. So, again, I'm just wondering if there is anyone who's been divorced and feels that it was the best decision and that, though it was hard, it was worth the trouble and pain? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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