Marie83 Posted April 22, 2017 Share Posted April 22, 2017 It has been nearly 5-6 months since I posted. My ex and I didn't talk since early December up until mid-March. We've talked on and off since then, but we can't seem to talk without fighting and this is all through text. We haven't spoken on the phone or met up. He is incredibly cruel and on edge anytime we communicate. It's been this way for a month and I don't know if this is normal or if it's impossible to communicate with an ex. It would be nice if things could be civil and he didn't act like I was the worst person in the world when he was the one to break my heart and move away for postdoc. He brought up applying to jobs in my city and visiting, but that it would be a horrible idea. I don't know of this is mixed messages or what, but I feel constantly put down, criticized, unsupported, and played with. We had a huge fight on Monday and I told him I didn't remember anything positive anymore about what we had, only hurt, and that I wanted him to leave me alone, never contact me again and wished I never met him and could forget him. I see a therapist who has called him flat out verbally abusive, yet my ex is a psychologist himself. I just wish this all could end and I could have closure and be happy and motivated with life, dreams and my future again. Link to comment
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