Careerchoice Posted April 21, 2017 Share Posted April 21, 2017 We met when she was 23. After 10 years together, she was still an immature, selfish little girl. I hoped she would eventually grow up, but she didn't. I was in the fight for my life (cancer) last year and she wasn't always there for me. Instead of taking me to and from chemotherapy for a few days, she was more concerned with saving her vacation time for personal days for herself. Having her blurt that out was so devastating. While I was incapacitated after surgery, waiting for food and needing an injection, she was out with her friend shopping. This is not the kind of person that should be raising another human being. I wanted to have kids with her until she proved herself unfit. I do not regret changing my mind. The only regret I have is sticking with her for so long. But I can't even be mad at her for her shortcomings because maturity is not a choice. This was the best she had to offer and I believe she gave me her best. Trust me, I know the only thing left for me to do is move on. I am determined to do that and I am almost there. Link to comment
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